For The King
The Man You’re Trying to Become
Is Already Underneath the One You’re Performing.
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Learn to love the shit out of you. Stop being someone for someone.
I believed for so long that I need to be a certain way to be loved. I need to train and become bigger to feel like a man. I need to be more dominant and an Alpha to attract a relationship partner that I desired. What ever it was, the way I was, was not enough.
I compared myself to everyone; what do they have and how can I get it as well?
So much of my life was strategized and dedicated to becoming someone that I wasn’t yet. I created ever evolving ideas of who I wanted to be. Not only was this journey tyring and frustrating, it would also never end, as with every new bit that I embodied, my awareness and capacity to see things grew, pushing the “Kings’” ideal ever further away.
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Do you struggle to feel strong in your softness?
Do you feel that you need to be built a certain way, so your partner feels safe with you?
Do you want to earn money to be the provider of the family?
If yes, then I am here to tell you, STOP. Yes, I want to scream at you, not to waste another moment. Stop right now, slow down, and start to feel your own energy within. Nothing of the above will give you the deep feeling of strength, of sovereignty and direction you desire.
Why? Because your masculine essence inherently embodies all of the above, but your trying to be someone else is putting a veil over what is already here. True masculine sovereignty starts by allowing and accepting all of you. By embracing all there is, you will forge your own unique way of masculinity and wholeness.
Stop wasting time suffering, embrace the possible, King!
How did you find back home?
My journey started over a decade ago when I lived in Peru and was introduced to Ayahuasca. I was not able to feel emotions and needed continuousness external stimulus to feel something. While plant medicine gave me the first taste of what’s out there, many different healing modalities followed to arrive where I am now – and the journey continues.
Below are the modalities that I adopted over the years and belief to be the most potent companions to become whole:
Breathwork
The Enneagram
Somatic Movement
meditation
Archetypal Energies
How can you help me?
My teacher said once to me, “you can take someone only as deep as you are”, and it’s been my post sign ever since. I lived in toxic relationships because I was afraid of being “abandoned”. I tried to please my partner to the degree that I lost my own power. I even lost my sexual desire and occasionally suffered under pre-mature ejaculation. All in service of pleasing her. All in service of pleasing me to stay safe.
Now I live intimate and fiery relationships and make an impact on this world. From then to now I experienced many great teachers, modalities, and pitfalls. I struggled to balance my sensitive, soft side with my desire to fuck. Fuck not only my partner but the entire world with my gifts.
The more I tap into my raw masculine essence, the more I tap into the ecstasy and vitality of life. This energy is giving me the courage to show my vulnerability, to show up naked, and to hopefully inspire other man like you to start walking their own path.
It feels so alive and potent here, come and join! Let’s embrace the possible together.
mentoring
1. 1o1 Coaching Session
Recommended For
1:1 Session
One session, one theme, whatever you walk in with.
I don’t run a curriculum. I meet what’s actually present that day and reach for whatever the moment asks for… breath, movement, silence, a question you’ve been avoiding. Your system sets the agenda. I follow it.
Most men arrive with a version of what the session should be about. Usually within twenty minutes we’re somewhere else entirely, somewhere more honest. That’s not a detour, that’s the session.
A king doesn’t rule from the same place he survives from. One session won’t rebuild the kingdom, but it will show you which of the two you’ve been ruling from.
Recommended for
You’ve got something specific sitting on you. A decision you keep circling. A conversation you’ve rehearsed a hundred times and never had. A pattern that just showed up again and you’re done pretending you didn’t notice it.
Or you’re the man everyone leans on, and you want one space where nobody needs anything from you.
Or you want to feel what this work actually is before committing to anything longer. Fair enough. Most men do.
Deciding If This Is Right For You
This is right for you if you’re willing to stop and feel something you’d rather analyse instead. You don’t need experience with breathwork or any of this. You do need to actually want it, not just be curious about it.
It’s not right for you if you want a technique to take away and apply on your own. I’m not handing you a framework. And it’s not therapy… if you’re in acute crisis, you need consistent clinical support, not one session with me.
Here’s the honest limit. One session will show you the strategy that’s been running you. It won’t be there next month when that strategy fires again and you don’t catch it in time. That’s what the six month container is for. Plenty of men start here and decide for themselves.
Location
I work with students all over the world via live chats as well as live from my meditation chalet in Gleniffer, NSW, Australia
Investment & Duration
Session last between 90-120min, but please allow some aditional time if you are planning to drive a car after a session.
Sessions: A$500*
*Mininum commitment of 3 sessions.
Mentoring
3. Core Connection | 6 months
Recommended For
Six months, because the thing you want doesn’t move in a weekend.
Every session is themed differently, depending on what you walk in with. I don’t run a curriculum. I meet what’s actually present that day and reach for whatever the moment asks for… breath, movement, silence, a question you’ve been avoiding. Your system sets the agenda. I follow it.
What six months gives us is time for the pattern to show itself. In one session you get insight. Insight is cheap, you’ve had plenty. Over six months I get to watch how you actually operate, catch the strategy the moment it fires, and stay with you through the part where the old way stops working and the new one hasn’t landed yet. That middle part is where most men quit. It’s also where everything changes.
A king doesn’t rule from the same place he survives from. Most men build the kingdom first and assume the throne will follow. It doesn’t. The kingdom keeps running on the strategies that got you here, and those strategies were built by someone much younger than you, under much more pressure.
The quality of your kingdom is capped by the state you rule it from.
What we work on over six months:
Seeing the strategy that’s running you. Every man has a way he keeps himself safe. Over-delivering. Staying in control. Being the one nobody worries about. It worked, that’s why it’s still here. We look at what it costs you now, and then we keep looking, because it will try again next month wearing different clothes.
The pattern that keeps repeating. The same hire, the same partner dynamic, the same wall at the same revenue. Three times is not bad luck. It’s a signature. Six months is long enough to watch it happen live and interrupt it in real time.
Meeting the core wound without flinching. This is the part most men route around for a decade. Not to wallow in it, and not to make it your identity, but because what you won’t look at makes your decisions for you. This takes trust, and trust takes months, not hours.
Power and integrity. Not the performance of authority, the real thing… the state where what you say, what you do, and what you actually want are the same. Men can feel it in a room. So can your team.
Bold decisions. The partner conversation. The exit. The role you should have left two years ago. We look at what you’re protecting by not deciding, and then you decide. Then I’m there for the weeks after, which is the part nobody plans for.
The drive. When the thing you built stops pulling you out of bed and you keep performing the motions of a man who still wants it.
The weight you carry alone. You’re who everyone leans on. Nobody asks how you are, and you’d deflect if they did. For six months, someone does.
Nothing here is broken and nothing needs fixing. Your sovereignty isn’t something you build, it’s something you stop obstructing. We take the veil off, and what’s underneath makes better decisions than the strategies ever did.
Deciding If This Is Right For You
This is right for you if you’ve already done some work and hit the ceiling of insight. You understand your patterns. You can name them. You’re still running them. That gap is what six months is for.
It’s right for you if you’re willing to be seen without the armour, by one person, consistently, over time. Not in a peak moment at a retreat. On a Tuesday, when nothing’s wrong and you’re still not okay.
It’s right for you if you’re prepared for it to get harder before it settles. Around month two or three the old strategy stops working and the new way of being hasn’t arrived. Most men quit there. If you know that’s coming, you’re much less likely to.
And it’s right for you if you actually want to change how you rule, not just how you perform. That distinction will get tested.
It’s not right for you if you want a framework to implement on your own, or a coach who agrees with you. I’ll challenge what you tell me, including the parts you’ve said so many times you no longer hear them.
It’s not right for you if you can’t commit to showing up when it’s inconvenient. The sessions you most want to cancel are the ones that move things.
And it’s not therapy. If you’re in acute crisis or managing a diagnosed condition, you need consistent clinical support. This works alongside that, not instead of it.
If you’re unsure, take a single session first. Six months with the wrong person is expensive in more than money, and you’ll know within one session whether I’m the right one.
Location
I work with students all over the world via live chats as well as live from my meditation chalet in Gleniffer, NSW, Australia
Investment & Structure
Ready to take your life to the next level?
This package includes:
- 12 private sessions, 60-90min each
- Weekly accountbilty check ins
- WhatsApp support for integration and connection between sessions.
Investment: A$9.000
Mentoring
3. Core Connection | 6 months
Recommended For
Six months, because the thing you want doesn’t move in a weekend.
Every session is themed differently, depending on what you walk in with. I don’t run a curriculum. I meet what’s actually present that day and reach for whatever the moment asks for… breath, movement, silence, a question you’ve been avoiding. Your system sets the agenda. I follow it.
What six months gives us is time for the pattern to show itself. In one session you get insight. Insight is cheap, you’ve had plenty. Over six months I get to watch how you actually operate, catch the strategy the moment it fires, and stay with you through the part where the old way stops working and the new one hasn’t landed yet. That middle part is where most men quit. It’s also where everything changes.
A king doesn’t rule from the same place he survives from. Most men build the kingdom first and assume the throne will follow. It doesn’t. The kingdom keeps running on the strategies that got you here, and those strategies were built by someone much younger than you, under much more pressure.
The quality of your kingdom is capped by the state you rule it from.
What we work on over six months:
Seeing the strategy that’s running you. Every man has a way he keeps himself safe. Over-delivering. Staying in control. Being the one nobody worries about. It worked, that’s why it’s still here. We look at what it costs you now, and then we keep looking, because it will try again next month wearing different clothes.
The pattern that keeps repeating. The same hire, the same partner dynamic, the same wall at the same revenue. Three times is not bad luck. It’s a signature. Six months is long enough to watch it happen live and interrupt it in real time.
Meeting the core wound without flinching. This is the part most men route around for a decade. Not to wallow in it, and not to make it your identity, but because what you won’t look at makes your decisions for you. This takes trust, and trust takes months, not hours.
Power and integrity. Not the performance of authority, the real thing… the state where what you say, what you do, and what you actually want are the same. Men can feel it in a room. So can your team.
Bold decisions. The partner conversation. The exit. The role you should have left two years ago. We look at what you’re protecting by not deciding, and then you decide. Then I’m there for the weeks after, which is the part nobody plans for.
The drive. When the thing you built stops pulling you out of bed and you keep performing the motions of a man who still wants it.
The weight you carry alone. You’re who everyone leans on. Nobody asks how you are, and you’d deflect if they did. For six months, someone does.
Nothing here is broken and nothing needs fixing. Your sovereignty isn’t something you build, it’s something you stop obstructing. We take the veil off, and what’s underneath makes better decisions than the strategies ever did.
Deciding If This Is Right For You
This is right for you if you’ve already done some work and hit the ceiling of insight. You understand your patterns. You can name them. You’re still running them. That gap is what six months is for.
It’s right for you if you’re willing to be seen without the armour, by one person, consistently, over time. Not in a peak moment at a retreat. On a Tuesday, when nothing’s wrong and you’re still not okay.
It’s right for you if you’re prepared for it to get harder before it settles. Around month two or three the old strategy stops working and the new way of being hasn’t arrived. Most men quit there. If you know that’s coming, you’re much less likely to.
And it’s right for you if you actually want to change how you rule, not just how you perform. That distinction will get tested.
It’s not right for you if you want a framework to implement on your own, or a coach who agrees with you. I’ll challenge what you tell me, including the parts you’ve said so many times you no longer hear them.
It’s not right for you if you can’t commit to showing up when it’s inconvenient. The sessions you most want to cancel are the ones that move things.
And it’s not therapy. If you’re in acute crisis or managing a diagnosed condition, you need consistent clinical support. This works alongside that, not instead of it.
If you’re unsure, take a single session first. Six months with the wrong person is expensive in more than money, and you’ll know within one session whether I’m the right one.
Location
I work with students all over the world via live chats as well as live from my meditation chalet in Gleniffer, NSW, Australia
Investment & Structure
Ready to take your life to the next level?
This package includes:
- 12 private sessions, 60-90min each
- Weekly accountbilty check ins
- WhatsApp support for integration and connection between sessions.
Investment: A$9.000
Men Circle
4. MIST Men Gatherings
Recommended For
Anyone who wants to experience a tight container dedicated towards growth, support & connections. Mist stands for Men Integrated Support Team and is run voluntary by Men of the Bellingen Shire. We offer work to integrate the feminine and masculine aspects of being a men with lot’s of different tools that a variety of men bring to the table. Example are breathwork, ice bath, primal games, ecstatic dance, somatic movement, yoga, BJJ and much more.
Every men is welcome!
Deciding If This Is Right For You
If you want to connect to likeminded men and respect different opinion and view points, this is the right place for you.
Location
We move around and find different spots around the Bellingen shire. Sometimes we gather indoors and sometimes we go on hikes. Best check the mist facebook page for details. https://www.facebook.com/groups/213533217211176
Investment
We are funded by donations to cover the cost of the locations, cacao, new tools etc. Donate what you can, and if you cannot, you are whole heartedly invited until you have the resources to donate.